Understanding Gujurati Weddings: A Comprehensive Guide

The Vibrant Colors of Love: An In-depth Look at Gujarati Indian Weddings

Introduction

  • The blog will start with a brief introduction about the rich cultural heritage of Gujarat and the significance of marriage in Gujarati culture.

Pre-Wedding Rituals

Sagai (Engagement)

  • This is the formal engagement ceremony where the bride’s family visits the groom’s family with ‘Matli’, a container filled with sweets and gifts.

Mehendi

  • This is a fun-filled event where the bride’s hands and feet are adorned with intricate henna designs. The event is filled with music, dance, and laughter.

Sangeet Sandhya

  • This is a musical night where both families come together to sing and dance in celebration of the upcoming wedding.

Pithi

  • A turmeric paste is applied to the bride and the groom in their respective homes. This is a purifying ceremony and is one of the oldest rituals in Gujarati weddings.

Wedding Rituals

Baraat

  • This is the groom’s procession to the wedding venue. The groom is accompanied by his family and friends who are dancing and singing.

Ponkvu & Jaimala

  • The bride’s mother welcomes the groom (Ponkvu). This is followed by the exchange of garlands between the bride and the groom (Jaimala).

Madhuparka

  • The bride’s mother feeds the groom honey and yogurt. The groom’s feet are washed and he is presented with gifts.

Kanya Daan & Hasta Milap

  • The bride’s parents give away their daughter to the groom (Kanya Daan). This is followed by the joining of the bride and groom’s hands (Hasta Milap).

Saat Pheras

  • The couple takes seven rounds around the sacred fire, making seven vows to each other.

Post-Wedding Rituals

Vidaai

  • This is an emotional farewell to the bride from her family.

Ghar Nu Laxmi

  • The bride is welcomed into her new home as the Goddess of Wealth (Laxmi).

Conclusion

  • The blog will conclude by summarizing the main points and reflecting on the beauty and diversity of Gujarati wedding traditions.
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